Kids' Chores
Having your kids help around the house is not only a great way to lighten your own workload (shh!), but being involved in the daily tasks allows children to feel involved and accomplished. Furthermore, understanding and appreciating just how much Mum and Dad do makes it a lot easier to accept those responsibilities on that monumental day when they actually move into their own place. But don't let that give you empty nest syndrome just yet. Breathe!
Some Tips
- Lead by example: If your kids see that you don't clean up after yourself, they won't be as inclined to help later on.
- Start early: There are chores that children as young as two can do to help. See the chart below for age-appropriate tasks.
- Give options: Let your child choose a particular job that he or she enjoys. However, if you have two or more children, make it clear that they have to rotate so the same person doesn't always get stuck with the least desirable task.
- Use a chore list: When expectations are clearly defined, there is less chance of failure and fewer opportunities for excuses from grumbly tots.
- Chores are not punishment: Turn up the music, dance around the house with your broom, and create some happy memories with your kids.
- Be specific, yet flexible: Setting quality standards from the get-go will ensure that your kids don't just exert the minimum effort. However, remember that your little worker bees are still children, so be reasonable in your expectations. We can't all be Martha Stewarts, especially when our hands are so teensy!
- Give praise where praise is due: Let your child know that his or her work is appreciated: say thank you and offer positive feedback for a job well done.
Chores By Age
2-3 Years Old
| 4-5 Years Old
| 6-8 Years Old
| 9-12 Years Old
| 13 Years Old & Up
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- Help make the bed.
- Pick up toys and books.
- Help feed the pets.
- Put clothes in the hamper.
- Clean up spills.
- Dust with socks on hands.
| - Clear and set the table.
- Dust.
- Help prepare and cook food.
- Carry in and put away groceries.
- Pick out clothes.
| - Help empty dishwasher.
- Sort laundry.
- Sweep floor.
- Clean bedroom.
- Pull weeds.
- Mop and vacuum.
| - Wash dishes.
- Help wash the car.
- Rake leaves.
- Take out the trash.
- Fold and put away laundry.
| - Do laundry.
- Iron clothes.
- Give the dog a bath.
- Prepared dinner.
- Clean out refrigerator and other appliances.
- Prepare grocery lists.
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Important Points
Remember that chores for your little ones should be fun, kid-friendly, and safe. There are many options for child-size cleaning tools, and look for cleaning products in a smaller size so they're not as cumbersome. Be sure to keep all toxic cleaning chemicals out of your children's reach, and if possible, buy organic and non-toxic cleaning agents.
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